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The Meaning of Christmas

Posted by: Cheryl Kagan on Friday, December 25, 2009 at 1:14:51 pm

The Meaning of Christmas

Post #24 

Today is Christmas Day.  Whether or not it is a holiday you celebrate, many people will be spending a day off from work with their families.* 

On this day, we celebrate “Peace on Earth and Goodwill to All” and feel loving and charitable as many exchange gifts or tear open those delivered by various “Secret Santas.”  So, how are we doing as the anniversary of the birth of Jesus Christ is celebrated by Christians around the world?

First, we obviously don’t have peace.  Brave American soldiers are at risk around the world and continue to be returned to their loved ones in pine boxes.  Terrorism, border skirmishes, hostage-taking, and the reckless use of firearms threaten families at home and around the world.  While President Obama has been recognized with the Nobel Peace Prize for his early outreach efforts to other countries, we have a very long way to go to realize a more peaceful world.

‘Goodwill to All’ is another lofty goal that we are far from achieving.  Whether it’s the unanimous NO vote on health care by the Republicans in the U.S. Senate or the rise in rudeness in online debates (including my own Facebook page!), we are an increasingly divided country.  It seems a challenge for many to even disagree in a respectful manner and really hear what their opponents are saying.

Empathy and charity are sometimes supplanted by a myopic focus inward and denial of others’ suffering.  Did you know that according to the Montgomery County Coalition for the Homeless, there were 1150 homeless people in Montgomery County-- of which 272 were children?  This was in January of 2008; surely the numbers are worse now.  Interfaith Works assisted over 6,000 low-income and homeless families and provided clothing to over 18,000 individuals last year.  Finally, despite our wealth, the Developmental Disabilities Coalition found that Maryland ranks 43rd among states in our spending on developmental disabilities services.  The burden on families and underpaid staffers is difficult to imagine.

As we celebrate our time with loved ones in a warm and safe home, let’s remember that we have a great distance to go before we can truly accomplish what people describe as “the spirit of Christmas.”  Perhaps we can all do our part toward achieving these goals in the coming year.

*I’d like to acknowledge the hard-working and committed firefighters, police officers and other public safety personnel who are working to keep us all safe today and every day.

I would love to hear from you, dear Blog reader!  How can each of us personally help achieve these lofty ideals?  What holiday values can we work to maintain year-round?    You may send an email to Blog@CherylKagan.org or click on the "Comments" link below to express your views.  Please be sure to indicate which post (#24) you're addressing.

Thanks for reading.  I will post again soon.

Comments

I know I'm not alone in thinking Christmas has lost its meaning in the din of commercialism surrounding it. My family has dispensed with all the trappings and just spend time together - my wife, daughter, son and I. We give what we can - not just at Christmas - mostly clothes and things people can use. We talk about being good citizens - how best to act as individuals to make the world around us better. It's not much, but it's what we can do. Brian Roberts
Posted by: Site Administrator on Monday, December 28, 2009 at 7:43:00 am

Cheryl, I agree with your perspective. In answer to your question of how each of us personally can help achieve these lofty ideals, I would propose the following: These lofty ideals are neither lofty nor merely ideals. These values are practical guidance for daily life and problem resolution. All life issues stem from illusions of separation; ... See Morefailure to realize relationships of all people, things, organizations, thoughts . . . If we each start to strip aways 'the stories' or judgements that we impose on our experience, differences begin to resolve themselves, our need for problems and enemies start to disapate. We need to change the way we think individually, become aware of the illusions and focus on 'what is' without attaching our own personal meaning. Regardless of faith, religious upbringing, and culture, it is amazing the peace that is achieved when one realizes that their experience is not universal, not truth, and not truly shared by anyone else. Then perhaps we can reach out in love and forgiveness to all humankind without the burden of egoic superlatives. Our foes are not foes. They are ourselves doing the best they can within their current experience. Matthew R. Tolford
Posted by: Site Administrator on Friday, December 25, 2009 at 8:20:00 pm

Cheryl, I agree with you about the shape we are in. Perhaps the story has been told all these years because even during the time of Jesus, it was controversial that the folks who rendered hospital care to Mary were sheperds and wisemen. Government was so lacking in services from Herod's notorius corruption that women received no official care... See More. Doctores were around during Jesus's time. Don't forget, Mary and Joseph were traveling to Bethleham to pay their taxes. Healthcare and taxes have always made the news and the things we are trying to achieve now could become stories that will be told into the next Millenium. Let's not just work on healthcare, let's work on getting women involved and working toward higher percentages in political offices and higher percentages in gaining federal contracts. 2.8% of federal contracts are awarded to women. This simply is not common sense nor good government. Corruption and oversight are the root causes and we must stand up for what we believe in. Susan Mapes
Posted by: Site Administrator on Friday, December 25, 2009 at 4:20:00 pm

I think you're spot-on. Lip-service Christianity seems to be becoming the 'official' religion of this supposedly separated-church-and-state nation. Hillary Foxsong Stoforos
Posted by: Site Administrator on Friday, December 25, 2009 at 3:30:00 pm

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